Oh How It Changes

I feel as though the world may have changed around me. I remember a time when we used to be excited to wait for something. As I wrote about how impatient some of the world has become, readers of this blog have commented. To me these comments indicate that I may be in the minority on this subject.

I understand the need for timeliness on things. As time passes the relevance of something may be increased or more often decreased. It seems to be that delayed gratification is becoming a concept of the past.

I wonder why this is.

Is it become we have so much disposable income? Since so many people can have so much of what they want, when they want it, have we forgot the time when we had to wait to get it.

Sappy story alert.

My first major purchase in my life was my Coleco NHL Table Top Hockey Game. I saw it in the Sears catalogue, and a few of my friends had one. I wanted one. I seem to remember the cost was about $25, back in 1983. I saved my allowance of $1 for weeks and weeks to pay for this. Finally I had the money to pay for it. I think my dad had the last couple of bucks to pay for it. So we ordered the one I could afford. It was put on back order. I had to wait even longer. Then they substituted the fancy one with its own legs. Eventually it showed up. I still remember putting it together with my parents on the living room floor in our house on Pelly Ave in Russell Manitoba. I think the wait added to the total experience.

I still have that Table Top Hockey Game. For the record the teams were Philadelphia and Vancouver. (It was the era when the Canucks had the giant 'V" on the front and back of the jersey.)

I am sure that the wait for the game added to my memory.

I am not sure if we have these same types of memories today.

I Want It Now, I Want It All

Yesterday I attempted to post a blog entry. For Some reason my Internet connection would not talk to Blogger, the service I use to provide this commentary on the world around us. I was a bit upset when instantly I could not have my ideas shared with the world around us.

I don't think I really needed to be at all upset. Although I put some time and effort into the post I didn't lose too much in the end.

The world has changed. In the most developed parts of the globe we demand instant results. Everything must be in stock. Everything must work all the time. Our questions must be answered immediately. Right now is not soon enough.

I have tried for a long time to not need instant gratification. The wait can be exciting. However, from time to time I find I must be satisfied now.

This is probably not helping civilization. We have become so demanding and reliant on instant solutions, we have forgot what it is to build up to something. There are very few things that we have to wait for. There are a couple I can think of including Christmas, a concert to come to town, a movie. This list is rather short. Nearly everything is demanded instantly.

I'm guilty too of being demanding but some times we need to slow down and wait. It will make the result so much more enjoyable.

Looking Through Windows

We all look at the world through windows. I'm not talking about the Microsoft GUI operating system. I am talking about our frame of reference. As our surroundings are altered, our window sees something different. We can't see everything. We can only see a frame of the entire world.

Our window is manipulated by our experiences. If you are around certain activities or behaviours, they become part of your frame of reference. They become the starting point by where you judge from. If you shift into a new environment your window will eventually change.

Our windows are significantly effected by the people we interact with every day. If you are around over-achievers most of the time you will tend to become one on your own. If the norm you see is being slack and lazy you will drift to that window.

The longer you spend with a group of people the more you will become like the people around you. Of course, you will retain some uniqueness and individuality, but your weaker norms will disappear, and only your strongest will remain.

There are other factors that will change our window. If the group you are in is quite homogeneous you will probably become like them faster and if you are similar or want to be similar to the group you will probably become like them sooner.

So where does this leave us?

Be around people you want to be like. If you want to be a pro bull rider, don't hang out with a bunch of hockey players. They will not help you move your window to one of a bull rider. Use the forces of nature around you to your advantage and the results will be amazing.

O Canada

Yesterday was Canada Day. As a Canadian its a day I feel some pride. I live in a rather amazing country. Diversity flourishes and personal liberty is honoured.

Why do Canadians celebrate being Canadian on July 1st.

The obvious answer is that day is the anniversary of Confederation. Nearly every country in the world has a national holiday. A day to reflect and celebrate the nation to which we belong. Most countries have their national holiday on the anniversary of the formation of their country, or their Independence from their horrible oppressive regime.

I can see there is validity in celebrating the first day of a nation's history. It is when it all began. The first day of a nation is not the best day of a nation.

Maybe we should be celebrating the best day as a nation. The day when we were truly remarkable. The day when we outshone the world.

I don't know what day that would be. It would be quite difficult in some nations to pick the best day. Many great things have happened in many great places. It could force the populous to think about their national achievements and celebrate the great ones. It could spark great debate and the sharing of great ideas. It could press a nation to be greater.

Of course if you are Canadian we get July 1st as a national holiday and the weather is usually nice and who would want to mess with that?